Secondly, we all kinda have a CHOICE in what we say and do towards others. One person can have a sh*tty looking chart BUT there's that one little placement that changes everything and makes it better. Despite this, we have other very nice and flowing aspects that overrule the other bad ones. Yes, we can have pretty bad arguments but they don't involve physical violence and/or derogatory meanings. My husband and I have very bad aspects between Mars, Pluto, Uranus and Mercury. Which brings me back to saying, don't dismiss a relationship based on one aspect.Īnd yes, you 'may' fall in love with people who square your moon, but it will take additional effort compared to someone you have Moon trines/sextiles with. But I think it balances out because at the same time, his Capricorn planets conjuncts my Ascendant. I have a very good friend of mine whose personal Capricorn planets are squaring most if not ALL of my personal Libra planets. that has moreĪlso, get rid of the idea that just because you have poor aspects with someone, things won't work out.

There are other aspects in synastry that can make things better for you both. You don't have to run away from someone you have a Mercury-Mars square with. I feel like you're placing the blame on just one aspect in synastry. I think as long as both people are tolerant of this energy or have the personality to put up with it, then it CAN work. Others prefer peace and harmony so this would be intolerable. Some people feel a lot of inner angst and love to argue, feeling invigorated when doing so. I think how well these people tolerate this friction depends on their own individual temperaments (which the natal can help explain). The Mars person gets annoyed by the things Mercury says and calls them out, which puts Mercury on the defense and so the argument begins. I agree this placement does cause friction as I've seen it play out in my own life and in those of people around me, but it's more heated arguments and misunderstandings. For that, there has to be more involved (like Pluto) and the person who initiates the violent outburst must have a hot temper themselves so the natal chart comes into play. It's doesn't ALWAYS end in physical violence. Well.let's not make broad sweeping statements about this placement. Because one person usually ends up calling the cops.Īnyway my lesson here is just don't do it. Chances are you won't fall in love with people who square your moon or other awkward things, so those awful synastries are irrelevant - yet for Mercury square Mars, people often convince themselves that they can make it work. I have had magical mercury synastries where it felt like our conversations reached a magical, transcendent plane (Neptune, of course) or that we could just talk for hours and completely understood each other and came away nourished (Moon, Jupiter).īut Mercury square Mars synastry is the worst, worst, worst synastry in my opinion to have become is promises fights - and fights that will keep going, building, raging, until someone gets physically hurt. You deserve so much more dignity peace and grace in your life than that. But life is WAY too short to spend your energy soul and heart on somebody who will react physically and angrily to things you say. It doesn't matter if your beautiful happy relationship is 6 months or 8 months sweetness and games. I realized after following up on my years-ago ancient post asking for more information about natal mars conjunct vertex in relocation charts that I should similarly impart lessons here. Topic: DO NOT F WITH MERCURY SQ MARS SYNASTRY This topic has been transferred to this forum: Interpersonal Astrology. DO NOT F WITH MERCURY SQ MARS SYNASTRY - Lindaland Welcome, Knowflakes, to Lindaland! ()

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